The ideal man for me is intelligent, college educated, professional, athletic. he is very extroverted, communicates well and is very motivated. he has a good sense of humor and is often spontaneous. Someone with strong family values, passion and compassion.he is emotionally strong and secure, flexible, fun and open minded. I am looking for a man who can be my soulmate and best friend. A man who can share her feelings, thoughts and emotions through communication. An ability to love and be loved.